May the true meaning of our Savior's birth keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Christmas 1996.
I think my memory is starting to fail me as I'm trying to
remember what this year has brought; it seems only the last couple of weeks keep
replaying in my mind. Wait, I can remember July when Geoff and I
celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary. We took off for a long weekend
and stayed at a couple of B&B's on our way to Canada and then stayed
in one of Vancouver's finest hotels and saw "Show Boat" at the Ford
Theater. It was great fun and nice to be alone for a change. We had
a hard time believing 20 years had passed and it was easy for us to recall many
details of our courtship and wedding. Remembering also brought many of you
to our thoughts and we found ourselves missing some of those "old days" in
Eugene.
Geoff is still at Allied Business Systems in Bellevue
working hard and seems to be solving many a computer problem daily. His
boss quite often expresses how he seems to be able to "walk on water" when it
comes to the mind of the computer. I for one am impressed, for other than
typing a letter or an invoice, the computer is still a mystery to me.
Timmy is now a sophomore at Issaquah High and is a
typical teenager with a fair loathing for school work. He is quite active
in Young Life and is a student leader for the Junior High group. This
summer he went to "Beyond Malibu" a week-long hike up the Canadian Cascades,
with a vertical gain of over 8,000' with the Young Life group. He seemed
to love every minute of it and now hiking is his summer sport. The snow
came early this year, so Timmy is off to teach skiing at "Webb Ski" to help
defray the cost of his own skiing habits. We are so pleased with him and
how the Lord has become a major part of his life.
Jenny's
highlight for the year was to be in her cousin Joy's wedding as her flower
girl. Jenny and I along with cousins Joelle, Steven and Christopher
traveled back with other family members to Minnesota in November for the
wedding. Jenny was in her element and loved being with Joy and David for
their celebration. They were gracious enough to let her stand at the
ceremony and sit with them at the reception. All of us were sure that if
she could have she would have gone on the honeymoon with them. She
definitely thought it was her wedding too. I had a great time with her on
this trip and cried when she came down the aisle. She was so cute and such
a little fairy princess, it was hard to believe she was mine. We had lots
of fun together when we went to "The Mall of America". They have an
amusement park there and she and I went on a couple of roller coasters.
She thought is was quite funny to see her "Mama" screaming and laughing as we
rolled and swayed at high speeds many feet above the ground. I usually
leave those kinds of activities to Geoff or Timmy but since they were not there
I had to take my own life into my hands.
As for me this year I
had a couple of fun projects that I worked on. I space-planned and
designed cabinetry for a chiropractic office, along with managing the
project. Geoff did all of the carpentry, so it was fun and helpful to work
together on the project. We learned two expensive painting lessons we'll
share with you for free: First, never try to substitute one paint for
another in the middle of the job. Especially if they are from different
stores. Even if they say they can match the color perfectly, the color
will NOT match, and neither will the "sheen." And another thing: be
sure to stir your paint thoroughly. We wound up painting some walls two
times and even three times because one can had a ton of yellow pigment at the
bottom of a 5 gallon pail that wasn't found until we got down to it. It
made it impossible to touch up without repainting the entire wall!
Another job that stands out is the latch key project I did for
one of Seattle's popular disc jockey and his family. They told me that
they had seen "Father of the Bride Two" and recounted the part of the movie when
"Franc" the designer had finished designing the nursery. He made a grand
presentation to the family by opening the doors and all of them seeing the room
entirely finished for the first time. The family and audience were in awe
of the room and loved it all. My clients in turn wanted me to do the same
kind of thing for them in their living room. They went away for vacation
and when they returned their living room was transformed. To my delight
and sigh of relief, they loved everything. It not only made my day, it
made my year. My last big project was to do the wedding for Sarah, my
brother's daughter two weeks after Joy's. I spent a marathon Thanksgiving
weekend cooking dinner for 30, decorating the church and making all the flowers
for the wedding with my friend Cheryl and overseeing the potluck dinner that was
at my brother's house after the wedding. I whined a lot about the wedding
being on Thanksgiving weekend, but had fun doing it anyway. It was
delightful to see how Sarah met her new husband from Pennsylvania this summer
while in China on a short term mission trip. They fell in love and Chris
came back with her to meet my brother and sister-in-law and to be married.
They are now planning to live in Mongolia as missionaries to the Kazahk people.
Our last bit of big news is the selling of our house.
Geoff and I have decided to sell this house and take the equity we have in it to
buy fixers and remodel them to be handicap accessible. We are coming full
circle on this, having done it back in the late 70's in Eugene, prior to the big
real estate crash. Hopefully, we'll be able to avoid some of the mistakes
we made before (like being careful about getting too leveraged, and also trying
to realistically estimate how much repairs to do and how long it will
take). This has been a dream of mine since my mother was in a wheelchair
for the last few years of her life and I saw the need to make properties
accessible for those who are impaired. While we start to do this we will
live in a rental unit for a few years, until we increase our equity to buy
something again for ourselves. Although we have a nice home, it's in a
cookie-cutter neighborhood in a cookie-cutter development, and it's never really
felt like "us" here.
Our wish for you in the coming year is
that you will be able to see the Lord's blessings in your life in all
circumstances.
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR
The Hazel's :Geoff, Fran, Timmy, Jenny, Barney the Rubble Dog and Slinky the
Queen Kitty
December 12, 1996